The Sting..........
Part 1
After some limited discussion about Aana, I made my way once again back to the
house to rest. Although there had been that shift in my friends perception of
the circumstances on my farm, I hadn't realize it or its significance and I
doubt she saw it either.
Too sick to be doing more than trying to
survive, I was only dealing with the face value of things. Looking for
inconsistencies, unlikely shifts in perception, motivations, etc were beyond my
capabilities. I wanted to sleep.......for about a month. As much as I was
grateful for the help grooming horses on that day, what I wanted at this point
was for everyone to be gone. I needed sleep as much as I needed to
breathe.
I don't know how much time passed before they finished up at the
barns. What I remember is talking with my friend with that woman beside her on
my front porch. Her mother and husband left taking the car she had driven
leaving her behind with the truck and horse trailer.
The woman asked me
where was the best place for us to talk and my friend asked if she should go or
stay. Still not fathoming what was coming, I could see no reason to have my
friend leave.
In hindsight I wonder if things might have turned out
differently had I made the opposite call. I did allow my friend's presence to
influence me in what was to come not realizing her perception was now tainted by
this master manipulator she thought was her friend.
I invited both women
into my house. My living room is not very big and my furniture is not great so
I positioned myself with the most comfortable pieces of furniture available for
my guests. As I recall this woman choose a foot stool which I thought was an odd
choice at the time. My friend sat in the chair nearest her.
Looking back
I realize the ottoman was chosen to align her with my friend. It was the two of
them opposite me. A small thing to notice unless you are trying to intimidate
someone or present yourself in a position of authority or needing to send the
impression of a united front. What I know about that choice is their position in
the room is etched in my memory right along with her message that
day.
When she began the conversation stating she was my friend and she
only wanted what was best for me, maybe I should have realized I was about to be
screwed but I didn't. The conversation that followed caught me totally off
guard.
She went on to say she understood how important my horses were to
me and how she knew I would never intentionally cause them any harm. Then she
proceeded to the state of my health. From there it was all downhill.
She
had painted herself as a kind, caring woman who only had my best interests at
heart. Then she painted me as the woman who was too sick to know what was good
for my family or my horses.
Dave and Lindsay could not be trusted
because they are not horse people. They want to help but they just don't know
what good horse care is.
This was all accomplished with a concerned
voice and thoughtful demeanor. The times I speak she kept up her charade of
friendliness working hard to convince me and assure my friend she only had my
best interests at heart.
Can you guess where it went from
there?
To be continued.....
The Bombshell.............
I think I can see where this is going. She's a master manipulator. I find it hard to believe that your friend didn't understand what was happening. I know you say she had your best interests at heart and still does but if she's a horse person she should have known better. And she should have helped you while you were being manipulated. I hope it all turned out right in the end.
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ReplyDeleteYou know, if you weren't sick I'd yell at you for taking so long to tell the story. I feel like I've been on pins and needles for a resolution for a WEEK.
ReplyDeleteI'm guessing, but trying to avoid assumptions. You do a good job describing your state of mind. You've probably already experienced, or expect to experience, having someone blame you for not seeing the forest for the trees, but it's one of those things where a person just has to recover from major surgery to understand.
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